Who is leading when I dance like no one is watching?  Remember the old days, the waltz, when one person would lead and the other use intuition skills to follow their lead?  It is a skill, that’s for sure.  I was never that good at it.  Now head-banging dance, I could do that really well.

Still, any dancing requires that I listen to the beat.  Today I will listen to the flow of the music around me.  My heart, the air, the others, the work, the body, the thirst, the seeking.  All this Tao-stuff.

I can certainly decide how to swim and dance, but I have given up–hands in the air squealing–directing this rollercoaster.

I dance in my seat on the ride.