What would it be like to be emotionally free of other people’s actions? That is I wouldn’t be reactive when I felt someone disrespected me with a rousing urge to snap and snarl at them. How DARE they?!?!
What would it be to feel open and laughing at that kind of behavior rather than reactive and angry? I suppose it would feel relaxing and humorous. Like someone playing tag trying to catch you so you’re “it”.
But isn’t that feeling of anger and resentment a signal that some kind of border is being broached? If people don’t like me, I really don’t need to choose to hang out with them. That’s self-torture, perhaps based on that deep desire for people to like me. Ha–if they don’t, I’m outta here! What a typical escapist reaction.
Today I cover myself with compassionate Divine teflon–so my heart is safe within the womb of faith, and all seemingly hurtful behavior around me just slides off me like a new protected pan. Nothing sticks to me, and I don’t grab at errant remarks trying to make a scene (aka get attention).
Can’t touch this!